By Buhle Nomgalasa.
Kumboniso onamandla womanyano, uOscar Mabuyane, iNkulumbuso yaseMpuma Kapa, ebebambe igxalaba nabantu base-Cacadu kunye noMphathiswa woPhuhliso loLuntu uBukiwe Fanta namhlanje.
Lo msitho uphawule umzuzu obalulekileyo kumzabalazo oqhubekayo wokulwa ubundlobongela obusekelwe kwisini, njengoko uluntu lujikeleze uMama kutsha nje ojongene nokubanjwa emva kokuthatha amanyathelo anzima ukukhusela intombi yakhe kwindoda ekutyholwa ukuba ibanjwe iyidlwengula.
Esi siganeko sihlasimlis’ umzimba sisikhumbuzo esicacileyo seengozi ezinzulu abantwana abajamelana nazo mihla le nobude abazali abaya kuthabatha ukuze bakhusele impilo-ntle yabo.
UMabuyane uyibethelele into yokuba eli tyala lingaphaya kwemithetho. Isigqibo sakutsha nje sokurhoxisa izityholo ngakumama luphuhliso olubalulekileyo, olubonisa ukuqondwa okubalulekileyo kwentlungu enganyamezelekiyo kunye nonxunguphalo olunyamezelwa ziintsapho ezijongene neenyani eziqatha zobundlobongela obusekelwe kwisini.
Igxininisa imfuneko engxamisekileyo yotshintsho lwenkqubo ekujonganeni nemiba yokhuseleko nobulungisa kubantu abasesichengeni.
“Ubukho bam namhlanje ibingekokuxhasa nje umntu omnye,” utshilo uMabuyane. “Yayimalunga nokuthumela umyalezo ocacileyo, ndimi nabasindileyo, nabazali abalwela abantwana babo, kunye noluntu olufuna ubulungisa nokhuseleko.
Ucele uluntu ukuba lujongane nobundlobongela obugqubayo, inkcubeko yokuthula ehlala ibangqongile, kunye nokusilela kwenkqubo okuthe gqolo ukuchaphazela ubomi babantu abaninzi baseMzantsi Afrika. Kwintetho yakhe, uMabuyane ubongoze uluntu namalungu omthetho ukuba bamanyane kwiinzame ezibambeneyo zokudiliza amaziko akhuthaza ubundlobongela nokungalingani.
“Kufuneka sisebenzisane ukuqinisekisa ukuba abantwana bethu bakhuselekile kwaye iintsapho zabo zifumana inkxaso abayidingayo ukuze baphilise kwaye bakhe ngokutsha,” utshilo.
Esi siganeko siye savusa incoko malunga neenguqu eziguquguqukayo zobulungisa kunye nemfuneko yesikhokelo somthetho esinovelwano esiqondayo ubunzima obungqonge amatyala obundlobongela obusekelwe kwisini kunye nokhuseleko losapho.
Lubizo olubuhlungu lwesenzo kubo bonke ababandakanyekayo – ukumamela, ukuqonda, kwaye okona kubaluleke kakhulu, ukwenza. Njengoko iCacadu ibonakalisa lo mzuzu ubalulekileyo, iimpembelelo ezibanzi zeli tyala zivakala kwiphondo liphela nangaphaya, kuqaqambisa imfuno engxamisekileyo yotshintsho.
Ngokudibeneyo, amalungu oluntu, iinkokeli, kunye nabameli kufuneka basebenzele kwikamva apho bonke abantwana banokukhula bekhululekile kuloyiko nalapho wonke ubazali benokukhusela abantu aba bathandayo ngaphandle kokujongana nesoyikiso solwaphulo-mthetho.
Utyelelo luka-Oscar Mabuyane eCacadu sisikhumbuzo soxanduva oluhlangeneyo lokuxhasa amaxhoba obundlobongela obusekelwe kwisini kunye nokwakha uluntu apho ubulungisa bungapheleli nje ekufezekiseni impumelelo kodwa buyinyani ezuzwe ngumntu wonke. Njengoko olu luntu luma kunye, luthumela umyalezo onamandla, umlo wobulungisa usekude ukuphela, kwaye kunye, banokudala ikamva elikhuselekileyo nelinobulungisa.